Valentine’s Day is a time of love, a time when people express their love to one another. It can also sometimes be when they reflect on the relationship they have or would like to have. A common question people often ask themselves is “how much am I loved in a relationship?” But is this a useful question? Following are two little stories that that offer some perspective.
Category: Life Between Lives
Life between lives regression is to regress someone to in-between lives, or interlife, after life, after death state. In this category there are theories, though mostly case stories from real regression work with my clients.
Growing up, I often wondered, what happened to my music?
It was as if I was meant to be musical. When I was a child, I dreamt of singing on a stage.
Those daydreams were very real. I had them in detail.
Over six years ago, on a Car Free Day in Vancouver, I met someone who I could only use the words “my counterpart” to describe. Strange it may sound, it felt to me that he was me in another form. He is a musician – a singer song writer. Like a soul splitting into two, living simultaneous parallel lives, I felt he is fulfilling my music side of life, and I get to single-mindedly focus on what I came here to do. Hypnotherapy is musical after all, to my life.
And in this music, I feel so heard.
From a very young age, before I knew what I wanted to do when I grew up, I already knew for certain that I couldn’t do routines.
The idea that everyday is a repetition of a previous day would kill me.
Therefore you can imagine how much I enjoy what I do now.
In the hypnotherapy practice, I never know what I get with the next client.
Even though everyone is so unique, still some people impress me more than others, in different ways.
The Mongolian family are such people, not only because they are from Mongolia, not only because they never showed up alone, not only because they are all big, tall and strong as a typical Mongol, yet so very cute… But also there are things about them that long after their sessions, I still have a smile on my face whenever I think about them.
I grew up up in China. And I still have memories of Sino-Vietnamese War. I was in my early teens. It was a huge event at the time. Short-lived as it was (It officially lasted for one month in 1979, though the armed conflict lasted for the next ten years), the war was brutal. We heard news everyday from the radio. Back in China, we called that Defensive Counterattack against Vietnam.
Eventually the collective memory of the war went into the file of forgiving. I visited Vietnam three times in my adulthood. My impression of the country was peacefulness with beautiful land and water, even though one could feel past memories still weighed heavy there.
“I don’t know. Maybe in hypnosis I’ll lose control. Maybe I’ll say things that I may not want to say.”
I still didn’t quite understand what exactly Carolyn was referring to, but I told Carolyn content-free hypnosis was completely possible. Besides, her subconscious mind is that protective mind. It will not say things to me that she was not ready for. Subconscious mind is even good at blocking things from ourselves, let alone another person.
Recently I have had a lot of people contacting me inquiring hypnotherapy services for helping remember some alien abduction memories.
The reasons people feel they have certain memories to be retrieved are different – a sense – a glimpse – missing times – friend’s advice…
As extraterrestrial or alien existence has not been acknowledged by mainstream, these people suffer from a lot of self-doubt and disbelief of their own experiences and memories.
I offer help not by believing into the “alien stuff”, nor disbelieve the “alien stuff”. I accept what the individuals have experienced is true to them, and do my very best to help them make sense of the experiences.
In hypnosis, after the trance state is induced, it is very easy to re-live the experience. Even though some would call these experiences trauma, as there was a lot of fear involved, what I have found is that the experience was not all negative. In fact, most of them were not.
Gray beings were mostly reported in the abduction phenomenon. I assume like humans, there are “good” people, and there are “bad” people with different agendas. Not all Grays are the same. After some understandable and benign abduction regressions, Vivian’s case was a surprise to me.
Lindsay arrived on time in the evening. And opened herself up quite immediately. There were many deaths in her life and she really wanted to find out why. She had a miscarriage, lost a son when he was 2 and half, three years ago she lost another son when he was 20, three months ago her husband Doug died. At the age of 50, she is half retired as a nurse. Facing so many deaths, she started to question life.
One thing I love working with people doing past life regression is that the hypnotherapist – that’s me – may find the depth and height of herself in the work she does. It’s very rewarding, on the soul level. And it feels so good!
It all started seven months ago. I began to work with two women for past life regression therapy. They are co-workers and very good friends with each other, both in nursing field.
One of them I’ll call Dana. We had instant rapport on the first meeting. I felt complete ease and flow with her. She went to a lifetime where she was a very famous historical figure – Joan of Arc. She called herself Jeanne with French pronunciation.
Lying on the couch, the moment Tania pops her big eyes wide open, she looks straight to the ceiling, and says from her lungs, “I KNOW YOU!”
Crystal clear words cut through the air. My heart trembles.
Tania goes on, “I know you. When we went to in-between-lives state and you asked me who I saw before I was born, I didn’t ‘see’ anyone. But when you were talking in the last bit, I remembered YOUR VOICE! That was the same voice that gave us a debriefing before a group of us were incarnated. I remember the voice. And that is you! “ Tania is excited. She sits up, and continues, “That voice. I know it! You told us it’s a tough place to live on the earth and to remember who we are. But you said it’s okay. You will find us. Oh my God!”