What Happens When the Structure Falls Away
Structures don’t fall away when we’re ready. They fall away when they’ve finished their job. When it happens, what’s exposed isn’t necessarily chaos – it can be truth without buffering.
There are fewer than two weeks left before I let go of my current office.
As 2026 begins, I’ll soon travel to Australia, then onward to Hong Kong and my hometown in China. I’ll return sometime in mid-April. What my work will look like when I return is still unfolding.
For many years, I’ve been in private practice. I’ve felt deeply loyal to my clients. The idea of moving fully online once made me intensely sad. But something has been growing – quietly, insistently – asking me to step into a greater coherence.
Naming who I already am has been destabilizing.
A dear friend recently said to me: You are a consciousness architect with a metaphysical spine and a psychological skillset. I didn’t become that. I’ve been living it for years. I’m simply no longer hiding it behind the familiar structures.
Being made coherent is not comfortable. It strips away roles that once felt safe. That destabilization is exactly what I’ll be writing about in my next book, Dehypnotized.
I’ve long known this truth: I’m a hypnotist in disguise. What I’m actually devoted to is helping people wake up from the trances they don’t like – or don’t realize they’re living — and reclaim authorship of their own consciousness.
The beginning of 2026 will be a form of field research. Not just through travel, but through listening – watching how the world reflects me as I peel away my own layers: identity, belief, depth, beauty, and inner architecture.
Although I’ll be writing my book, this journey isn’t about productivity. It’s about anchoring my gravitational centre: Consciousness Transformation Through Personal Narrative – the axis that everything in my life and work now orbits.
Every human being is hypnotized by their own stories.
Freedom begins when they learn to dehypnotize themselves.
To my clients: thank you. You haven’t just trusted me – you’ve helped me shape the work itself.
